Every girl dreams of getting married right from her childhood (Well, most of us do!). Getting married is a huge milestone in the life of a girl and she puts her best effort to look fabulous on the day. Right from flawless makeup to the lehenga, everything has to be impeccable for stunning photographs (C’mon it’s her day after all!). However, despite planning everything in advance, it is completely normal for a girl to have cold feet or second thoughts about marriage or a pang of anxiety for the next stage of life.
Getting married is a roller-coaster ride with a plethora of thoughts running through the mind. So, if your wedding date is around the corner, you had better start preparing to handle pre-wedding qualms to be a little relaxed on the big day. To make your task easy, we have compiled a list of the top 11 thoughts every girl has on her wedding day. Let’s have a look
Crazy Yet Legit Pre-Wedding Thoughts of Every Indian Girl
Am I Doing It Right?
Whether you have known your life partner for ages or you are setting up an arranged affair, second thoughts on the wedding day might freak you out to the extent that you start doubting the guy waiting for you at the mandap (Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, anyone?).
With one doubt, you will begin to question all of his qualities and scenarios to begin a deadly chain reaction. To be honest, it’s quite normal to have such thoughts. However, let us not be Anjali and settle for less than what we deserve. The moment you will reach the venue and look at his eyes full of love, your fears will vanish in a jiff.
How Will I Pee?
Girls are humans too!
With dozens of jewelry that can give Bappi Lahiri tough competition and clothes worth kilos, it is pretty obvious for you to worry about your peeing times. Also, the nervousness might make you feel like peeing more often than other times.
How Will I Stay Without My Parents?
It’s not easy for any girl to leave her entire family behind and start afresh. You are likely to have this thought before the wedding day. So, relax. We know it is going to be a tough decision and you won’t be around your family. However, you will also gain amazing and doting people in your life to look after you. Overall, you will be extending your happy family.
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What If The Baraat Doesn’t Arrive?
Oh no! We entirely blame Bollywood for having such thoughts.
If you are having this thought before your wedding, please take a note that you take a little extra dose of Bollywood than others and you should probably start watching good movies. So, shut this thought as soon as it arrives.
Will Everything Be As Per The Plan?
You have been dreaming about this day for so long that you obviously do not want anything to move out of plans. The desire to make everything peachy keen can make you more perturbed. At times, it can be good and give some amazing ideas. However, at other times, it can cause trouble to others. So, it’s okay to have jitters but let others handle their chores and you keep a tab on the arrangements with the concerned people.
Who are These People?
If there’s one thing that is common between Modi and the bride, they both have no idea about most of the people watching, talking, or speaking behind their backs. You are not obliged to know everyone present at your wedding. However, you are also not supposed to make them feel that you are clueless. So, stick to smiling and touching the feet of elders. You can get to know them later!
Do I Look Fat?
To be honest, even God can’t answer this question!
Yes, you wish to look flawless on your day with a perfect figure and body. Hence, the thought of looking fat can cross your mind more often. To look perfect in the wedding photographs, make sure that you hold your shoulders back, push your chin forward, and look at the photographer instead of looking straight in the camera.
What If My Makeup Runs?
Thanks to the vidaai tears that got this thought into your mind.
To be honest, it is a valid one because you don’t want to look bad in your vidaai. So, to resolve your issue, there are a lot of products that can be used to make your makeup waterproof. Make sure that you discuss it with your makeup artist.
Will The Guests From The Boy’s Side Like Me?
Your wedding will be the day when you will meet a lot of guests from the boy’s side. You will have apprehensions about their opinions about you and it can also run you down to look the best. However, make sure that you be yourself because there is no greater ornament than simplicity and grace. With this, you can steal everyone’s heart with panache.
How Will I Be With My In-Laws?
It’s crucial for you to build a relationship with your in-laws. Similar to your relationship with your fiance, put some effort into making a place for yourself in their hearts. You can do this by visiting them before the wedding, buying gifts for them or offering them with serving or cleaning up. Do not act like guests with them to build warmth.
How Will My First Night Be?
Whether it is love or arranged marriage, it is obvious for you to be a little tense about your first-night post marriage. Although you might have had intimate moments with your fiance before the wedding, the first night is still the most special moment of your life.
So, to all those ladies out there, you are not the only one. Share with us what were your thoughts or any funny anecdotes. We would love to hear from you. Till then, stay connected with us for more such fun reads.
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